Meet Babykins. He's such a kind and warm child. He's
also very determined. There are lots of lessons about life and our
relationship with God to be learned from children.
Babykins is learning to walk.
-1- Babykins' parents do not get mad at him when he
stumbles. They are not disappointed that he isn't a perfect walker yet. They know perfectly well that he will learn how.They are very familiar
with the whole "learning to walk" thing and understand that it is a
process. There are no expectations for perfection. God is no different. He sent us to earth to gain experience and to be changed through that
experience. He has no expectation for immediate perfection. That's
the ultimate goal and reality, but certainly not even a possibility in the
present.
-2a- Even though Babykins is learning to walk and focusing
on that, he's still developing in other ways. He likes to make sounds and
talk on the phone, to try new foods, and to play new things with his brother. His overall progress has not halted because he hasn't learned to walk
perfectly. He'll learn. We're all struggling through our individual challenges. While they must be worked through, God can still help us learn and develop in other ways while we work on those things.
-2b- Focusing solely on our problems is unhealthy. It's not helpful or appropriate to identify ourselves as a problem or a
concern or a behavior. Babykins is not a "learning to
walk" or a "sometimes falls down," just as we are
not a "temper," an "addiction," a "health
concern," a "lazy attitude," or a "weakness." We
may have some of those things; we are children of God. God's love for
us and our relationship to Him does not change based on what we do or struggle
with. Babykins will always be his parents' child. And they will
always, always love him, no matter how many times he stumbles.
-3- The only thing that will keep Babykins from learning to
walk is if he stops trying. If he got discouraged and lost hope that he
would be able to learn to walk, and then refused to even try, he would never
learn. But, he hasn't done that. Each time he falls, he just crawls
to a desk or a chair and pulls himself up. He's even learned to stand up
without any support now! For us, the only thing that will keep us from becoming
like God and living with Him again is to get discouraged and to lose hope that
the future can be different from our present. If we sit down and refuse
to try to follow Christ and to let Him help us back up, we won't live with God
again. All God wants us to give Him is ourselves. He has asked for
our hearts. Along with our hearts comes our lives, our actions and
decisions. If we will keep trying, I know that the Lord will help us. He does strengthen those who trust Him and in His ability to keep His promises. I know that, just as I know that we can be changed and healed as we just
keep having the faith in Him to repent and obey over and over and over again.
Great thoughts. Great photos.
ReplyDeleteThis is one of the most beautiful things you're ever written.... I loved it.
ReplyDeleteWhat a gorgeous child, and what applicable thoughts. :)
ReplyDeleteHey Eric those are some really good insights! Thanks for sharing. I'm looking forward to seeing you at the mission reunion.
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ReplyDeleteYou're very insightful. I love that first thought--that babies' parents don't get mad at them or frustrated when they don't get something right away or when they stumble. It is so hard to remember that God has perfect patience because he developed it. He's been through it. He knows what it's like to learn and He knows how long it takes to get it right, so He's not worried. Thank you for sharing that.
ReplyDeleteI really appreciate you sharing these analogies. It's so simply put and understandable, even a kid would understand. There is plenty of ways to keep a refreshed perspective alive daily. You just showed me another way to remember my Redeemer. Thank you.
ReplyDelete~hailey