Tuesday, September 25, 2012

Guest Post: Emilie Gardner

Several weeks ago, I was driving on the freeway a distance that took about 45 minutes to drive. About 20 minutes from my destination, I noticed a truck following me very closely. Not only was this truck following me, but this truck also had its brights on. I changed lanes and then became frustrated because the truck changed into the same lane behind me! The truck followed me for about 10 minutes with its brights on. I started glaring into my rear-view mirror at the truck (that always works ;) ). Because the brights were on and I was glaring so intently, when I turned to look back at the road, I could no longer see. I was blinded by what was going on behind me. In fact, it took my eyes several seconds to be able to see what was going on in front of me again.

I thought about that experience and realized that Heavenly Father was teaching me a valuable lesson. And with a New Year approaching, I feel it is important to explore that lesson in a little more detail.

I believe that Father in Heaven was teaching me not to focus on the annoyances that are in my past. In fact, I think that's the point, they are in the past. They are behind me. I am on the road, in a car that is leaving those things behind. They are not current for me. They are behind me.

The Apostle, Paul, said, "This one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before, I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus (Philippians 3:13–14)."

When we make the past our focus, instead of the future, it indicates a lack of faith. As Elder Holland said, "I plead with you not to dwell on days now gone nor to yearn vainly for yesterdays, however good those yesterdays may have been. The past is to be learned from but not lived in. We look back to claim the embers from glowing experiences but not the ashes. And when we have learned what we need to learn and have brought with us the best that we have experienced, then we look ahead and remember that faith is always pointed toward the future. Faith always has to do with blessings and truths and events that will yet be efficacious in our lives." So yes, look back and learn, and then be done! When we have faith, we look forward and we let go of what is behind us. We let go of things people have done to hurt us-whether intentional or unintentional. We let go of relationships when it is time to let go. We let go of our own mistakes. We let go of anything that keeps us from moving forward and becoming.

It is time to let go of the things that are keeping us from safely moving forward. Do not be blinded by what is behind you. Look forward, stay safe, and live in faith.

"Look ahead and remember that faith is always pointed toward the future." -Elder Holland

Monday, July 16, 2012

Long but Good, or C.S. Lewis: The Three Parts of Morality

This is an excerpt from Mere Christianity, by C.S. Lewis:

The Three Parts of Morality

There is a story about a schoolboy who was asked what he thought God was like. He replied that, as far as he could make out, God was "The sort of person who is always snooping round to see if anyone is enjoying himself and then trying to stop it." And I am afraid that is the sort of idea that the word Morality raises in a good many people's minds: something that interferes, something that stops you having a good time. In reality, moral rules are directions for running the human machine. Every moral rule is there to prevent a breakdown, or a strain, or a friction, in the running of that machine. That is why these rules at first seem to be constantly interfering with our natural inclinations. When you are being taught how to use any machine, the instructor keeps on saying, "No, don't do it like that," because, of course, there are all sorts of things that look all right and seem to you the natural way of treating the machine, but do not really work.

Some people prefer to talk about moral "ideals" rather than moral rules and about moral "idealism" rather than moral obedience. Now it is, of course, quite true that moral perfection is an "ideal" in the sense that we cannot achieve it. In that sense every kind of perfection is, for us humans, an ideal; we cannot succeed in being perfect car drivers or perfect tennis players or in drawing perfectly straight lines. But there is another sense in which it is very misleading to call moral perfection an ideal. When a man says that a certain woman, or house, or ship, or garden is "his ideal" he does not mean (unless he is rather a fool) that everyone else ought to have the same ideal. In such matters we are entitled to have different tastes and, therefore, different ideals. But it is dangerous to describe a man who tries very hard to keep the moral law as a "man of high ideals," because this might lead you to think that moral perfection was a private taste of his own and that the rest of us were not called on to share it. This would be a disastrous mistake. Perfect behaviour may be as unattainable as perfect gear-changing when we drive; but it is a necessary ideal prescribed for all men by the very nature of the human machine just as perfect gear-changing is an ideal prescribed for all drivers by the very nature of cars. And it would be even more dangerous to think of oneself as a person "of high ideals" because one is trying to tell no lies at all (instead of only a few lies) or never to commit adultery (instead of committing it only seldom) or not to be a bully (instead of being only a moderate bully). It might lead you to become a prig and to think you were rather a special person who deserved to be congratulated on his "idealism." In reality you might just as well expect to be congratulated because, whenever you do a sum, you try to get it quite right. To be sure, perfect arithmetic is "an ideal"; you will certainly make some mistakes in some calculations. But there is nothing very fine about trying to be quite accurate at each step in each sum. It would be idiotic not to try; for every mistake is going to cause you trouble later on. In the same way every moral failure is going to cause trouble, probably to others and certainly to yourself. By talking about rules and obedience instead of "ideals" and "idealism" we help to remind ourselves of these facts.

Now let us go a step further. There are two ways in which the human machine goes wrong. One is when human individuals drift apart from one another, or else collide with one another and do one another damage, by cheating or bullying. The other is when things go wrong inside the individual-when the different parts of him (his different faculties and desires and so on) either drift apart or interfere with one another. You can get the idea plain if you think of us as a fleet of ships sailing in formation. The voyage will be a success only, in the first place, if the ships do not collide and get in one another's way; and, secondly, if each ship is seaworthy and has her engines in good order. As a matter of fact, you cannot have either of these two things without the other. If the ships keep on having collisions they will not remain seaworthy very long. On the other hand, if their steering gears are out of order they will not be able to avoid collisions. Or, if you like, think of humanity as a band playing a tune. To get a good result, you need two things. Each player's individual instrument must be in tune and also each must come in at the right moment so as to combine with all the others.

But there is one thing we have not yet taken into account. We have not asked where the fleet is trying to get to, or what piece of music the band is trying to play. The instruments might be all in tune and might all come in at the right moment, but even so the performance would not be a success if they had been engaged to provide dance music and actually played nothing but Dead Marches. And however well the fleet sailed, its voyage would be a failure if it were meant to reach New York and actually arrived at Calcutta.

Morality, then, seems to be concerned with three things. Firstly, with fair play and harmony between individuals. Secondly, with what might be called tidying up or harmonising the things inside each individual. Thirdly, with the general purpose of human life as a whole: what man was made for: what course the whole fleet ought to be on: what tune the conductor of the band wants it to play.

You may have noticed that modern people are nearly always thinking about the first thing and forgetting the other two. When people say in the newspapers that we are striving for Christian moral standards, they usually mean that we are striving for kindness and fair play between nations, and classes, and individuals; that is, they are thinking only of the first thing. When a man says about something he wants to do, "It can't be wrong because it doesn't do anyone else any harm," he is thinking only of the first thing. He is thinking it does not matter what his ship is like inside provided that he does not run into the next ship. And it is quite natural, when we start thinking about morality, to begin with the first thing, with social relations. For one thing, the results of bad morality in that sphere are so obvious and press on us every day: war and poverty and graft and lies and shoddy work. And also, as long as you stick to the first thing, there is very little disagreement about morality. Almost all people at all times have agreed (in theory) that human beings ought to be honest and kind and helpful to one another. But though it is natural to begin with all that, if our thinking about morality stops there, we might just as well not have thought at all. Unless we go on to the second thing-the tidying up inside each human being-we are only deceiving ourselves.

What is the good of telling the ships how to steer so as to avoid collisions if, in fact, they are such crazy old tubs that they cannot be steered at all? What is the good of drawing up, on paper, rules for social behaviour, if we know that, in fact, our greed, cowardice, ill temper, and self-conceit are going to prevent us from keeping them? I do not mean for a moment that we ought not to think, and think hard, about improvements in our social and economic system. What I do mean is that all that thinking will be mere moonshine unless we realise that nothing but the courage and unselfishness of individuals is ever going to make any system work properly. It is easy enough to remove the particular kinds of graft or bullying that go on under the present system: but as long as men are twisters or bullies they will find some new way of carrying on the old game under the new system. You cannot make men good by law: and without good men you cannot have a good society. That is why we must go on to think of the second thing: of morality inside the individual.

But I do not think we can stop there either. We are now getting to the point at which different beliefs about the universe lead to different behaviour. And it would seem, at first sight, very sensible to stop before we got there, and just carry on with those parts of morality that all sensible people agree about. But can we? Remember that religion involves a series of statements about facts, which must be either true or false. If they are true, one set of conclusions will follow about the right sailing of the human fleet: if they are false, quite a different set. For example, let us go back to the man who says that a thing cannot be wrong unless it hurts some other human being. He quite understands that he must not damage the other ships in the convoy, but he honestly thinks that what he does to his own ship is simply his own business. But does it not make a great difference whether his ship is his own property or not? Does it not make a great difference whether I am, so to speak, the landlord of my own mind and body, or only a tenant, responsible to the real landlord? If somebody else made me, for his own purposes, then I shall have a lot of duties which I should not have if I simply belonged to myself.

Again, Christianity asserts that every individual human being is going to live for ever, and this must be either true or false. Now there are a good many things which would not be worth bothering about if I were going to live only seventy years, but which I had better bother about very seriously if I am going to live for ever. Perhaps my bad temper or my jealousy are gradually getting worse -so gradually that the increase in seventy years will not be very noticeable. But it might be absolute hell in a million years: in fact, if Christianity is true, Hell is the precisely correct technical term for what it would be. And immortality makes this other difference, which, by the by, has a connection with the difference between totalitarianism and democracy. If individuals live only seventy years, then a state, or a nation, or a civilisation, which may last for a thousand years, is more important than an individual. But if Christianity is true, then the individual is not only more important but incomparably more important, for he is everlasting and the life of a state or a civilisation, compared with his, is only a moment.

It seems, then, that if we are to think about morality, we must think of all three departments: relations between man and man: things inside each man: and relations between man and the power that made him. We can all cooperate in the first one. Disagreements begin with the second and become serious with the third. It is in dealing with the third that the main differences between Christian and non-Christian morality come out. For the rest of this book (Mere Christianity) I am going to assume the Christian point of view, and look at the whole picture as it will be if Christianity is true.

Monday, June 11, 2012

A Thought II

“Happiness is the object and design of our existence; and will be the end thereof, if we pursue the path that leads to it; and this path is virtue, uprightness, faithfulness, holiness, and keeping all the commandments of God. But we cannot keep all the commandments without first knowing them, and we cannot expect to know all, or more than we now know unless we comply with or keep those we have already received."
Joseph Smith

A Thought


"If all I had tomorrow is what I thanked God for today, what would I have tomorrow?"

Life as of June 11

So, if you've spoken with me in the last few months, you know that I have been struggling to figure out what I want to do with my life, especially in regards to my career. I feel a little like I'm playing Keep-Away, the game where a big circle of people keep tossing a ball back and forth to each other while one person runs around inside the circle, trying to touch whoever currently has the ball before they toss it to someone else. I've been seriously and carefully "running" back to old career options, exploring new ones, and being concerned because the time to decide is now. 

Going through this process, along with witnessing one of my friends pass through a true tragedy, has helped me learn a truth that is very precious to me:

It is in the process of experiencing uncertainty or adversity that we can receive some of God's choicest blessings.

And, for me, one of those blessings is knowledge. Knowledge of who I am, what I'm made of, and what my core is. Knowledge of God's purpose for sending us to earth. He has given us the opportunity to become like Him: to grow and learn by experiencing new things. And to learn that He is always going to support us, no matter what we've lost or how frustrated we might feel. 

A lesson from music lessons: if the goal is to learn how to play an instrument well, no amount of theoretical knowledge can take the place of actually practicing that instrument. I could study what a piano is and what the keys do when they're pushed, but no amount of theoretical knowledge could replace the experiential knowledge I will gain by actually practicing the piano every day. 

Well, we lived with God before this life and we all chose to come to earth. We had theoretical knowledge of what this whole earth-life would be like and who we could become.  But, now we're here. We're actually doing the practicing and learning. We are experiencing things that can, for the better, change us. The becoming thing is actually taking place. And we will become better than we ever imagined we could become. And the becoming occurs as we learn from the difficult things we experience. 

Blessings don't just come at the end of trials. I've also learned that expressing thanks for adversity and confusion while still experiencing them leads to some pretty powerful experiences. It's a simple act of faith: showing God that you trust Him, and that you trust that there are beautiful things to learn from the difficulties of life. I promise that as you express thanks to God for your own struggles, even while you're still experiencing them, you will feel Him teach you exciting and important things. What we learn from trials can often lead us to sincerely feel grateful for the trial itself. Passing through our hard times enables us to learn things that will forever be a part of who we are.

So, as we ask God to help us, He will change our hearts and teach us the lessons we came here to learn. He will give us the strength that we need to keep going. He suffered what we experience so that He can help us (Alma 7:11-15). And God will not leave us alone; He will comfort us through His Holy Spirit and through our friends and loved ones.

Guest Post: Dominique Badura

I was baptized when I was 8 years old and have been a member of the church my whole life, but my true conversion happened later in life, after I went to Boston. If it wasn’t for missionary work, I wouldn’t be a member of this church.

I always wanted to be the person that could share my testimony on an airplane, or with a random stranger on the street. But it just didn’t work like that. In order to share your testimony, you have to have a testimony. After being a member of this church for 18 years, I realized as I was trying to I was trying to share my testimony in Boston that I didn’t really have one. I took books of Mormon with me so I could pass them out, but in order to share my testimony, I needed to have one of my own. I met friends while in Boston that to this day are some of the best missionaries I know. They saw me struggling and made sure I went to church every week, they read scriptures with me but most importantly, they loved me.

When I came back from Boston, I fell back into old habits and stopped going to church. My Boston friends, with a few additions, wouldn’t let me go though. They continued their missionary work and eventually I gained a testimony of my own.

With help of friends I started reading the book of Mormon, and living the way I was supposed to. But most importantly, I started to feel Heavenly Father’s love for me. I could see through my friends examples that Heavenly Father loves me, and that I was supposed to go to Boston so I could gain a testimony and be able to share it.

Through this I gained a testimony of the book of Mormon, as I did Moroni’s promise each time I knelt in prayer I just heard the voice “you know it’s true” But during the sessions of the last October conference, that is when I got the firm answer of knowing what I was doing was good, and right, that Joseph Smith translated the book of Mormon and that when we do what is right that Heavenly Father blesses us.

Missionary work is love, like said by Elder Koelliker in this most recent conference, “it is when we yield to God’s will and live His patter that His spirit is felt. The Savior taught, “by this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another” This principle of having love one to another and developing our ability to be Christ centered in how we think, speak, and act is fundamental in becoming disciples of Christ and teachers of His gospel.”

It is because of the love of others that I am a member of this church. Missionary work is incredibly important, I can now testify of that.

Tuesday, April 3, 2012

Guest Post: Ragan Lybbert

I was sitting in Sunday School not too long ago and had a very vivid memory come to mind that I hadn’t reflected on for quite some time. The instructor was speaking about our Savior and His ability to rescue us from any difficulty or hardship, even the darkest times in our lives. A very brief, yet dark moment of my life flooded to my memory and dominated my thoughts. Even more vividly I remembered how the thought of the Savior and God’s promises to me helped pull me out (almost literally) of that situation.

I was on a river rafting trip with a youth group from my ward having a great time. A few minutes before this incident I had climbed off a large raft with a big group of my peers and leaders and climbed onto the back half of a small, inflatable, two man kayak with a close friend. As we headed downstream we took on every big rapid and quick current we could. We were having the time of our lives. Finally, we took on a particularly big rapid that seemed to dip and then wash back over itself so that the visible part of the rapid was actually flowing upstream. Its upstream force was enough to stop our little kayak with my friend past the rapid and me still behind it.

All of a sudden our kayak buckled and I was sucked down into the rapid. At first I thought nothing of it as I had already jumped in the river multiple times that day and have spent much of my life in the water. However, despite wearing a life jacket, I wasn’t surfacing. Still, I didn’t become concerned until I noticed that my surroundings were getting darker and darker as the rapid forced me deeper and deeper without allowing me to move downstream at all. I don’t know how long I was under the water, but I know it was long enough to think that I was going to die; just as that thought crossed my mind, I remembered my patriarchal blessing. Specific promises and personal assignments that I had been given came to mind and I knew my time on earth was not yet finished. I knew the Lord had more for me to do and that He would take care of me until I had finished my assigned tasks.

No sooner had that thought crossed my mind than I instantly shot to the surface. Immediately next to me was a couple on a small boat who just happened to be right where I surfaced. They helped me onto their boat and took me to my group where I was fussed over for a minute and then allowed to enjoy the rest of the trip.
I have since associated this experience with one of my favorite scriptures. Matthew 14:30-31. This is the story where Peter joins our Savior, who is walking on the water. It reads -

30 But when he (Peter) saw the wind boisterous, he was afraid; and beginning to sink, he cried, saying, Lord, save me.

 31 And immediately Jesus stretched forth his hand, and caught him,

I love that the Savior immediately came to Peter’s rescue, much like He did mine. I know that if we are living according to God’s laws that we can call upon Him in our need and that He will come immediately to our aid, no matter how bleak the situation, so long as it is His will to do so. Our Savior can save us from any situation we find ourselves in, so long as we will turn to Him and ask for His help. I love Him for that and for the great sacrifice He made for each one of us.

Thursday, March 22, 2012

List Time, or Lately

Life's been wild lately; I've made some decisions that have dramatically changed where I'm going with my life. But, I'm really happy about where I'm headed. So, here're just some thoughts:

- Prayer really is two-way communication. God has encouraged us to talk with Him, not just at Him. It's a whole different experience to really tell God our sincere feelings instead of just saying what we think we should be saying and how we should be saying it. Sometimes we may feel that God couldn't really love us because of who we are or because of what we've done, or we may think that the small things in our lives are insignificant or inappropriate to share with Him. Not so. None of those ideas are true; they are lies designed to keep us from approaching the one person who really does love us unconditionally. No matter what's happened or how imperfect we are, God always wants to hear from us. (Learn more about prayer here)

- Life is exciting and there are loads of cool opportunities we can take advantage of every day. Even if our options are genuinely limited, God can help us to take advantage of the opportunities we are presented.  

- Being true to oneself gives a cool sense of confidence. Placing my worth on others' opinions of me is exhausting and against everything God has told me. My worth comes from knowing that I am God's son and that He loves me. I can learn to love myself and others in that same way. (More info here)

- Change takes time. God's answers take time. Troubles and concerns never end. I think God wants me to learn to be happy in the process, in the moment, each day. There is no "finished" or "ok,-now-I'm-ready-to-go." Every day can be good, no matter how terrible some elements of life may be. I have given those "some" hard elements of my life too much attention. God is helping me look at those as only a part of my life; as He's helping me do this, I am seeing a world of exciting and beautiful people, opportunities, and experiences that have always been mine, but that I have overlooked.

- It has been a process to learn what I've learned, to see what I'm seeing, and to feel what I feel. And I'm not done with my process. But, that's exactly where I need to be. We are where we are, and there are no "oh dear, I've ruined everything" or "this will never work out." These ideas may seem to be real and inescapable, but they're not. They're not real because of Jesus Christ. Through His sacrifice for us, He knows how and is able to help us exactly where we are. The future is not determined by the past. We can place our hope and our trust in Jesus. He will comfort and help us as we learn how to accept Him in our lives.

Click here to learn more about things you can do to accept Jesus more in your life.

Friday, January 27, 2012

When No is Right, or When Yes is Assuring

So, prayer is how we talk with Heavenly Father. I have asked for His help with situations and problems and concerns many times. Sometimes God answers almost immediately and I see incredible positive changes or miracles. But, there are other things I ask about that seem to go unanswered and are still unanswered. I am coming to learn that those aren't "unanswered" prayers. They are "not-yet" prayers.

Here are few observations:

1 - "Not-yet" prayers teach us that God actually does have a plan for us. He can do anything, but He won't in these specific situations. That's often because He knows where we will need to be, who we will need to meet, and when and where all of this will need to happen. Sometimes we're just a little early, or at times we may just be barking up the wrong tree. But more often He is just using our current trials or situation to teach us things and change us in ways for which we will thank Him later. We came to earth to learn and grow. And to be changed. Trials are one of the essential ways that growth is facilitated.

2 - "Not-yet" answers are not punishments, and they are not signs that God doesn't love us. It certainly gives God no pleasure to see us go through disappointment after disappointment (Ezekiel 33:11). He really does weep with us when we suffer. I know that.   

3 - That said, I am amazed at how quickly God does respond with a "yes" at other times. When He answers "yes," I think that He hopes to assure us that He really is helping us, and that either answer can be a sign of His concern and perfect knowledge; in other words, "yes" answers can help us accept "not-yet" answers with greater faith because we know God is responding. God wants us to not forget that He cares so much for us, and to know that He will answer "yes" whenever it is the best thing for us. He is our Dad, after all; He'd give anything to help us return to Him; His goal is our ultimate happiness.

Wednesday, January 18, 2012

Roller Coaster, or The Days After

I talk about roller coasters whenever I can. 

I find that how I feel about things fluctuates. And it can change in just a few minutes. When I'm feeling doubtful or worried about the future, I sometimes wonder how things will work out. But, I haven't given up and I won't. I know and feel assured that everything will be good and that God really does have places for me to go, jobs to find, and people to meet and love.

Neal A. Maxwell said:

"We may not know how to account for our moods at times, but the fact that these moods pass through us ought not to destabilize us so far as the deep doctrines of the Church are concerned. If down moods cannot be driven out at once, we can at least accelerate their transit times.

"It is so easy for one person's bad day to become another person's bad day. A spreading electrical power outage ends up affecting everybody, because early on, the discipline required was abandoned in favor of passing the problem along. Emotional electricity is much like the real thing.

"In any objective assessment of life, we can always be reassured as to the things that matter most: Immortality is ours through the gift and grace of Jesus Christ; there is a loving, caring Father in heaven; and we will live eternally under His perfect rule. We have such high promises and absolutely no reason for ultimate discouragement. Therefore, proximate pessimism ought not to envelop us. We ought not to be blitzed by our moods."

So, I'll remain seated, keep my hands and feet inside the car at all times, hold on tight, and enjoy the ride.  : )

A Sermon by Elder Jeffrey R. Holland, or When We Are Looking For Peace

http://lds.org/ensign/1996/11/the-peaceable-things-of-the-kingdom?lang=eng

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Another List, or Disappointment

I liked the whole list thing, so here goes another one:

Faith in God and His individual plan for us is a choice. And when the choice to trust God is made, sweet assurances, such as peace and security, are felt. 

God can help us choose to have faith. One way He does so is by preparing us for current challenges through our past experiences.

Remembering who God is and what the purpose of life is eases disappointment. A proper and true perspective changes everything.

Unpleasant feelings aren't meant to be smothered by pretend happiness.

Sometimes we don't receive strong spiritual impressions or experiences from God because we don't need them at that time. Instead, He'll give us less intense doses of ideas or simple thoughts. He wants us to learn to rely on Him, not just on strong feelings or experiences.

Experience allows us to relate with others.

Simply being oneself is so relieving. Trying to guess what others want or expect is both draining and impossible. Really, how could we hope to please everyone all at once? By trying to be what we hope others want, we may temporarily please some people, but we will unknowingly push away those people who want to be close to us. Our true friends and loved ones don't want to be close to the "us" we want people to like. They want to be close to just us, our true selves.

God is the same way. He loves us as we are. And we don't have to pretend with Him. We can, if we want, be our true selves with Him. It does take some practice and trust, but we can learn to do it more constantly and with greater willingness. It becomes easier and easier the more we feel that God's love is consistent and perfect.

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Grapes, or How I Feel About God

“The sun is the majestic central feature of the solar system, and everything else in that system is subservient to it. Yet in some distant village on a small plot of land tended by a struggling and anonymous father caring for the needs of his family, the sun ripens to perfection a single cluster of his grapes as if it had nothing else in all the world to do.”
-Anonymous

In Summary, or Lately

These are a few ideas that summarize some of the things I have been learning lately:

My choices matter. If I want to do good and follow God, He will enable me to do so.  

God will not force me to be helped. I must first choose to be helped - I must strive to do what He asks. He has taught me the things I can do to access His help (prayer, service, attending church, reading His word, heeding the Holy Spirit's guidance). When I choose to do these simple things, I put myself spiritually in places where I can receive His help.

My family is incredible. They love me, laugh with me, and listen to me.  

My friends are wonderful. They're all so different, but they are awesome. They're all supportive and such good, good people.

For my job I teach English to people from other countries who are going to be missionaries for my church. I love them. They are my friends. I also love all of my co-workers. I have met some of my favorite people at work.

We are all given contexts in which we live that can restrict our lives and options. These contexts, though, do not remove our opportunity to choose.

God uses people to teach me things - church leaders, friends, professors.  

And God has things He wants to teach us at certain times. Right now He's helping me see the power of choice and what I can do if I really want to. His eternal plan for us is set up so we can discover and achieve what we truly want. Jesus overcame death and sin for us, which we couldn't do for ourselves. Now, everything else is up to us; we are in the process of choosing what we want our immortal lives to be like. Jesus has offered to be our guide to lasting happiness. If we will let Him, He can guide our choices and lead us to joy. And if it is what we want, He will give us the strength to follow Him. 

Monday, January 9, 2012

Determined vs. Choice

"A second truth about our accountability is to know that we are not the helpless victims of our circumstances. The world tries to tell us that the opposite is true: imperfections in our parents or our faulty genetic inheritance are presented to us as absolving us of personal responsibility. But difficult as circumstances may be, they do not relieve us of accountability for our actions or our inactions. Nephi was right. God gives no commandments to the children of men save He prepares a way for them to obey. However difficult our circumstances, we can repent."

-President Henry B. Eyring